Found it! The Genderbread Person

[zeeth_kyrah]

Here, have a Genderbread Person (version 3, without watermarks). Use as desired to help you understand yourself or others. Please remember that compassion, understanding, and acceptance are better than ignorance, confusion and hatred. Mere difference is not evil.

I'm going to say how I identify (with a couple of extra details), because at the moment I feel the need to get a bit TMI about it. Be careful looking under the following cut, because shocking knowledge lies within.

1. Species: Human otherkin, Dragon type. Nature: Belief (dragon soul rather than mind only; neuro-atypical as a result)
2. Gender identity: Twin-gender/genderqueer (female inner gender, low body-gender rejection at this time)
3. Gender expression: Androgynous, Feminine male
4. Physical sex: Male
5. Sexual attraction (physical attraction): Strongly prefers females (~Kinsey 1.5 based on body sex to body sex preference)
6. Romantic attraction (mental/emotional attraction): Low biromantic, prefers females. Minimal experience outside of cissexual gender norms, little to no flirting experience (thanks to social deprivation, aka "the outcast problem" which geeks often experience in youth)
7. Attraction spread: Polysexual, polyromantic; okay with physical monogamy at this time.

Comments

[kistaro]

Which pronouns would you prefer to be referred by?

(I'll admit that reading this made my intuitive sense of pronouns for you kind of go "klack" like a key on a buckling-spring keyboard and settle abruptly into "she/her", like they were under tension and just waiting for enough force to settle into a more stable position.)

I should write up something similar to this for myself, except I still haven't come to terms with the instability of my own sense of gender. "Involuntarily genderfluid, tending towards the feminine side of genderqueer" is, I suppose, not a wrong thing to write, and I can't articulate why I feel awkward about it. (Part of it is that I still don't have a good answer to questions about what pronouns I wish I could be referred to by.)